. A slogan on a poster at a bus stop read, "I want my future back." If the future hasn't happened, how can anyone 'get it back'?! Since the future isn't fixed, or clearly known how would a person be able to tell if they had 'gotten it back'? Unclear (or mistaken) ways of 'seeing' cause MUCH suffering- creating conflict, not only with what is, but within the person 'themself'. Being observant (mindful), in order to distinguish between what we want (have, or do, etc.), and what IS is the starting point to discovering reality. When a person refuses to step out of their self-created fantasy world, and decides to 'set things right', they create a suffering situation that is (for all intents and purposes) impossible to resolve. Matthew
"How wonderful, how wonderful, all things are perfect as they are." Buddha